{"id":13,"date":"2014-12-19T00:21:00","date_gmt":"2014-12-19T00:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/our-gifts-our-value-and-our-dreams\/"},"modified":"2015-04-09T02:32:06","modified_gmt":"2015-04-09T02:32:06","slug":"our-gifts-our-value-and-our-dreams","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/our-gifts-our-value-and-our-dreams\/","title":{"rendered":"Our Gifts, Our Value and Our Dreams"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument>  <w:View>Normal<\/w:View>  <w:Zoom>0<\/w:Zoom>  <w:PunctuationKerning\/>  <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas\/>  <w:SaveIfXMLInval>false<\/w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>  <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false<\/w:IgnoreMixedContent>  <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false<\/w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>  <w:Compatibility>   <w:BreakWrappedTables\/>   <w:SnapToGridInCell\/>   <w:WrapTextWithPunct\/>   <w:UseAsianBreakRules\/>   <w:DontGrowAutofit\/>  <\/w:Compatibility>  <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4<\/w:BrowserLevel> <\/w:WordDocument><\/xml><![endif]--><br \/><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState=\"false\" LatentStyleCount=\"156\"> <\/w:LatentStyles><\/xml><![endif]--><!--[if !mso]><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/video_object-300x243.png\" style=\"background-color: #b2b2b2; \" class=\"BLOGGER-object-element tr_noresize tr_placeholder\" id=\"ieooui\" data-original-id=\"ieooui\" \/><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 10]><![endif]--> <\/p>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Winter.jpg\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Winter.jpg\" height=\"150\" width=\"200\" \/><\/a><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">As we experience the Holiday season and approach the start of a new year, we often reflect on what the past has brought us, and wonder about the future.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">The truth is, no matter what you&#8217;ve experienced, or where you are now in your life or business, you can still hold on to your dreams and to the deep value of who you are.&nbsp; Here&#8217;s my gift to you, via John Maxwell, one of the most famous leadership writers and teachers in the world.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">And don&#8217;t forget my two free gifts to start your 2015 on a powerful path.&nbsp; Find out more on the &#8220;Achieve Your Dreams&#8221; webinar and free book here:&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.pathwaytoprosperity.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.pathwaytoprosperity.org\/<\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">&nbsp; <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% rgb(235, 235, 226); line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #351c75;\"><i><span style=\"font-family: Times,&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,serif;\">Wishing You Happy Holidays,and Many Blessings!<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">John Maxwell\u2014Re: Nelson Mandela&#8211;Our Cell Does Not Define Our Value<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">Almost two years ago, on a trip to the African continent, I was privileged to speak in Cape Town, South Africa. While there, I received a very meaningful gift from my friend Shaun Battleman: a visit and private tour of Robben  Island.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">If you haven\u2019t heard of Robben Island and the prison that used to be there, you might have heard of one of its more famous prisoners: Nelson Mandela. You might also be familiar with this picture of him in his jail cell, where he spent many years of his life for the \u201ccrime\u201d of protesting South Africa\u2019s policy of apartheid.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">On a sunny spring day in Cape  Town, we boarded Shaun Battleman\u2019s yacht and traveled over to Robben Island. After disembarking, we were taken on a private tour of the facility (which is now a museum). Our tour guide, Jama, had been imprisoned there at the same time as Mandela.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">Once we entered the former prison, the doors were slammed shut \u2013 to give us a sense of what it felt like to be locked in. We saw the area where prisoners were issued a number and lost the use of their name, along with the censor\u2019s office, where news from loved ones was literally cut out of letters.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">Most significantly, we visited Nelson Mandela\u2019s cell \u2013 the one in the picture above. The furnishings consisted of a bucket, a stool, and a \u201cbed\u201d that was really just a mat on the floor. Jama allowed me to unlock the cell door and enter the space that had been \u201chome\u201d to Mandela for so long. First, I lay down on the mat \u2013 it was very uncomfortable, as you might imagine. Then I looked out the cell window onto the prison yard, just like Mandela did above. And I was overcome with emotion, inspired by Nelson Mandela\u2019s courage and commitment. For you see, he never stopped fighting apartheid, even while imprisoned.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">He and fellow prisoners, who were not allowed to interact, met in the one place in the whole prison where the guards left them alone: the cave that they had to use as a toilet. Because of the smell of the cave, the guards would not go in. So it was there that Mandela and his fellow prisoners discussed the future of South Africa.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">Released in 1990 after the dismantling of the system of segregation, Mandela went on to serve as first president of the new South Africa from 1994 to 1999. And after retiring, he continued to serve his people. He\u2019s now almost 95 years old, and one of the leaders that I admire most who I haven\u2019t been able to meet. I don\u2019t know if I\u2019ll ever get to meet him, but I can tell you the lessons I\u2019ve learned from him. This is what I took away from my visit to his prison:<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; border-bottom: solid #AFAFAA 1.0pt; border-left: none; border-right: none; border-top: solid #AFAFAA 1.0pt; margin-left: .25in; margin-right: 0in; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid #AFAFAA .75pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid #AFAFAA .75pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 15.0pt 0in 8.0pt 0in;\">\n<ul type=\"disc\">\n<li style=\"background: #EBEBE2; border: none; color: #233239; line-height: 13.5pt; margin-bottom: 7.5pt; margin-left: .25in; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid #AFAFAA .75pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid #AFAFAA .75pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-padding-alt: 15.0pt 0in 8.0pt 0in; padding: 0in; tab-stops: list .5in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 11.5pt;\">Our surroundings need not control our spirit.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"background: #EBEBE2; border: none; color: #233239; line-height: 13.5pt; margin-bottom: 7.5pt; margin-left: .25in; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid #AFAFAA .75pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid #AFAFAA .75pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-padding-alt: 15.0pt 0in 8.0pt 0in; padding: 0in; tab-stops: list .5in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 11.5pt;\">People who devalue us do not determine our value.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"background: #EBEBE2; border: none; color: #233239; line-height: 13.5pt; margin-bottom: 7.5pt; margin-left: .25in; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid #AFAFAA .75pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid #AFAFAA .75pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-padding-alt: 15.0pt 0in 8.0pt 0in; padding: 0in; tab-stops: list .5in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 11.5pt;\">Dreams can be birthed during the daily grind.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"background: #EBEBE2; border: none; color: #233239; line-height: 13.5pt; margin-bottom: 7.5pt; margin-left: .25in; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid #AFAFAA .75pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid #AFAFAA .75pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-padding-alt: 15.0pt 0in 8.0pt 0in; padding: 0in; tab-stops: list .5in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 11.5pt;\">Out of our brokenness, we can be made whole and      bring healing to others.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">The writer in the Bible\u2019s book of Proverbs wrote, \u201cA man\u2019s gift makes room for him.\u201d Nelson Mandela had no room in his cell, but his gift could not be contained. In time, his gift made room for him to lead and bless his country.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/me-2Balone-2Bby-2Bfalls.jpg\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/me-2Balone-2Bby-2Bfalls.jpg\" height=\"200\" width=\"166\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\">Happy Winter, Happy New Year!<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% rgb(235, 235, 226); line-height: 13.5pt;\"><i><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times,&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,serif;\"><span style=\"color: #233239;\">To Your Abundance,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"background: #EBEBE2; line-height: 13.5pt;\"><span style=\"color: #233239; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10.0pt;\"><b><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times,&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,serif;\"><span style=\"color: #351c75;\"><i>Lynnea<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-13\" data-postid=\"13\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-13 themify_builder themify_builder_front\">\n\t<\/div>\n<!-- \/themify_builder_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As we experience the Holiday season and approach the start of a new year, we often reflect on what the past has brought us, and wonder about the future. 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