{"id":198,"date":"2008-12-18T20:35:00","date_gmt":"2008-12-18T20:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/go-where-youre-celebrated\/"},"modified":"2015-04-09T02:32:41","modified_gmt":"2015-04-09T02:32:41","slug":"go-where-youre-celebrated","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/go-where-youre-celebrated\/","title":{"rendered":"Go Where You&#8217;re Celebrated!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/12\/new-lincoln-hs-DM.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 95px;\" src=\"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/12\/new-lincoln-hs-DM.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5281239705452725410\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>I gave myself a great gift this month&#8211;a 9-day trip to the Midwest.  Not very exciting or gift-y you say?<br \/>It was to me.  The last 18 months have been challenging, to say the least.  I had already made reservations to fly to Kansas City to spend 4 days with my almost-92-year-old dad, then drive to Des Moines (where I was born &amp; raised*) to see family and friends.   As Thanksgiving approached I felt myself kind of &#8220;flapping in the breeze&#8221;, and was very grateful that I had made plans to plug into places, things, and people that are so much a part of who I am.<br \/>The warmth, love, familiarity, bonding, and simplicity of moments shared were the greatest holiday celebrations I&#8217;ve had in a long time, providing the energy &amp; &#8220;fuel&#8221; for the year ahead.<br \/>All this reinforces what I preach: &#8220;Go where you&#8217;re celebrated, not where you&#8217;re tolerated&#8221;.  Surround yourself with people who know you (with all your failures, warts, and all), and love you anyway.   THIS IS ONE OF THE GREATEST STEPS IN LEADING YOURSELF!<br \/>On my trip I finished the wonderful book, &#8220;<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Success That Lasts<\/span>&#8221; by Porras, Emery and Thompson (Stewart Emery was one of my radio guests), and in the book the authors demonstrate that the most &#8220;successful&#8221; people surround themselves with people who celebrate them and their passions for what they are doing.<br \/>We should demand no less of ourselves.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">*BTW:&#8230;that&#8217;s a 1921 artist&#8217;s rendering of my old High School (above)&#8211;still there after 86 years.<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic;\"> I toured it and was charmed by what a beautiful place it is&#8230;funny how time changes your perspective on things!<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-198\" data-postid=\"198\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-198 themify_builder themify_builder_front\">\n\t<\/div>\n<!-- \/themify_builder_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I gave myself a great gift this month&#8211;a 9-day trip to the Midwest. Not very exciting or gift-y you say?It was to me. The last 18 months have been challenging, to say the least. I had already made reservations to fly to Kansas City to spend 4 days with my almost-92-year-old dad, then drive to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":257,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[142],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-198","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-december-midwest-trip","has-post-title","no-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=198"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/257"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=198"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=198"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/abundancecoaching.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=198"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}